Often times you will find me say, “If you cant get into someone’s space keep off !” This has come from knowing that people are very quick at judging other people without ever bothering to know the why’s of what they can see.
You will find a fat/thin person and gossip that she eats alot not knowing that the real reason she is what she is, is that she has a hormonal imbalance situation.

You will condemn that youth on an addiction not knowing that, that youth lost her /his parents many years ago yet maybe you are 60 years and you still have both your parents and even then you are not perfect!

You will condemn that woman on the street, not knowing she has had to raise her 12 children single handedly when you have your spouse to raise 2 children, who even then haven’t turned out too well.

Let’s stop hurting people by the many negative things we keep throwing out to them. It costs a lot to build a name or a brand only for you to destroy it for that, your “friend”. The know it all attitude is a falsehood. To relate with someone, you need to get into their space and feel their pain, their struggle, their lack and so on.  And if you took time to do that you would speak life to them, you would show love to them, you would give a crying shoulder to them and better still you would pray for them.

So if what you are saying or doing doesn’t build and make a person or a situation better, just shut up and keep off ! Ever remember, the judgement you use on someone is the same judgement that will be used on you on that last day and then it will be too late. God never delegated judgement. Repent now when you have a chance. I tremble!